Feeling like a cheater

snorkles · Post by **snorkles** » Fri May 16, 2008 8:08 am

I'm leaving tomorrow for a week on Virgin Gorda. Although I am excited about the trip, (never been there before) I have a guilty feeling as if I am cheating on STJ. Has anyone else felt like this?

lavender · Post by **lavender** » Fri May 16, 2008 8:48 am

My hubby and I lovveeeeee St John but alas last trip down to the islands we went to St John for 5 days and Cooper Island for 5 days and yes I felt like I was cheating on my beloved. And......we are going back to Cooper for 10 days in March 09 and probably will only get to St John for a daytrip. Yes definitely cheating but life is all about choices!! Enjoy Virgin Gorda!!!

jmq · Post by **jmq** » Fri May 16, 2008 8:54 am

Maybe for a moment, then the extremely pleasant people of VG and sense of adventure that a going to a new place brings makes that go away, helped along of course with stuff like this:

PA Girl · Post by **PA Girl** » Fri May 16, 2008 9:33 am

Follow cheater hear - we settled on VG for our next winter trip just last night but I am trying to fit STJ in between now and then.

snorkelqueen · Post by **snorkelqueen** » Fri May 16, 2008 11:32 am

We go to SJ every year and love it but I have considered Cooper Island many times. We stopped at Cooper to pick up some people for a dive trip a few years ago and I really loved the place. Can you give me your thoughts? I guess you must have liked it 'cause you're going back but I would love a real review! Beaches, snorkeling ???? Thanks

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chrisn · Post by **chrisn** » Fri May 16, 2008 1:00 pm

jmq, everytime you post one of your gorgeous VG shots, my heart beats a little quicker! I will be there for my first VG island stay in 2 weeks and 3 days! I don't feel the tiniest bit guitly though since STJ will claim a week of my time directly following!!! I am so excited, I'm ready to crawl out of my skin!

jmq · Post by **jmq** » Fri May 16, 2008 1:13 pm

Thanks. I've been thinking about it a lot lately too because it is under consideration for a last minute trip next month if the calendar opens up, but dont know if we can pull it off.

chrisn - pls post a trip report in Off Topic forum when you get back. That may have to do if we cant go.

Lex · Post by **Lex** » Fri May 16, 2008 1:55 pm

When we went to VG last fall, it was the first time in over twenty years that we'd stayed anywhere in the Caribbean other than on STJ. The first time we went to STJ it felt like we'd found paradise and once you find paradise, there's no need to look further. But the island has changed and it's not such a good fit for us anymore. We'll go back to STJ at least once more to stay at Maho one last time before they roll up the tents, but we really enjoyed VG.

I've had other places on my list for a while: Bequia, Carriacou, Mayreau, Nevis, Dominica. My most recent addition is Barbuda which fascinates me because it's so hard to find out much about it. We really love Kauai and I would like to get to the South Pacific before I die. There's a lot to be said for returning again and again to a favorite, beloved place. It becomes so comfortable and is so steeped in memory. But I also enjoy getting to places I've never been.

verjoy · Post by **verjoy** » Fri May 16, 2008 10:55 pm

Lex~~
Just thought I would mention that we stopped on Mayreau way back in '88 on a cruise. We thought it was paradise, but very remote. The population then was only about 120 persons. They had a steel pan band there and we bought one of their homemade cassette recordings. What better souvenir to bring back memories of the island? The tape is fuzzy sounding now but I still like to listen to it!

I'm sure by now they would probably have more amenities for visitors, let's hope it is still pristine...

Barb Y · Post by **Barb Y** » Sat May 17, 2008 8:17 am

JMQ Love those pictures! Thanks for sharing them!

Noreen · Post by **Noreen** » Sat May 17, 2008 8:22 am

What a timely post. Our family trip this year is to Little Dix Bay. I was trying to influence the decision (not mine to make, alas) toward Caneel, but was unsuccessful and have been semi regretful ever since. jmq's pictures have certainly proved encouraging!

Actually, I can't wait to go. Would previous visitors recommend renting a jeep, or can we get around with cabs? I don't want to spend the entire week at the resort, although sand gravity does tend to take over on these things, lol.

And back to St. John in October. Have a great trip, Snorkles, and tell us all about it!

cptnkirk · Post by **cptnkirk** » Sat May 17, 2008 8:34 am

Don't feel guilty we are talking about doing three or four days on Gorda and a week on St John after seeing the Beauty of the Baths. Have fun on your new adventure. Heres one more pic to get ya pumped.
Great shots jmq

California Girl · Post by **California Girl** » Sat May 17, 2008 1:31 pm

Noreen wrote:What a timely post. Our family trip this year is to Little Dix Bay. I was trying to influence the decision (not mine to make, alas) toward Caneel, but was unsuccessful and have been semi regretful ever since. jmq's pictures have certainly proved encouraging!

Noreen - Considering that you weren't too excited about VG in the beginning, I would REALLY love to hear your comments about it when you get back. It will be interesting to know if you love it or not after STJ.

I went to Grand Cayman in January and was pretty disappointed in it as far as landscape and attitude and distances between towns. The water is the most gorgeous I've ever seen, but regarding everything else, I was spoiled by St. John.

Noreen · Post by **Noreen** » Sun May 18, 2008 10:24 am

Not only VG this summer - I was seriously considering Anguilla next year instead of St. John. Talk about cheating! Then, last night, my husband made an offhand comment about the villa we like, and staying there next year, and I realized that I may have to find a way to make three trips in 2009. I keep telling him, we should just move.

But don't we all think that?

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