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Bye!
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:11 pm
by California Girl
Just to avoid any speculation about what happened to me, please know that Anthony will be deleting my account and all my posts at my own request.
It's been fun...until recently. Thanks guys!
Margo
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:16 pm
by Iluvstjohn
oh no....don't let the crazy people of the world scare you off....it gives them too much power! LOL...Trolls will be trolls and evil lurks in even the smallest of places. Just know...those that give the most trouble on forums like these are often the most unhappy people in real life.....I feel for them...their crazy posts and terrible comments mean
1. They have waaaaay too much time on their hands. Which means no life....or very little of one
2. They have very poor self esteem and feel "big" by making others feel little.
3. They have probably very little to feel grateful for and feel the need to start trouble to fill the void in their lives.
The list can go on....I chuckle at forum drama for mainly seeing right through the crazy people in the world.
I understand your need for a break...but do come back...never let the crazy people will! LOL
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:19 pm
by Pete (Mr. Marcia)
If all your posts get deleted...you know what that means, don't you? Yup, MBW becomes the new posting champion. You really gonna let that happen?
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:26 pm
by California Girl
Apparently I post too much anyway. I'm sorry, but I came to this forum to get away from the snarkieness of VINOW, but it seems to have seeped over here. There's hardly anything I can post any more without getting some ugly response or PM. I don't need any of that crap in my life.
"If you don't like it, don't read it" is pretty hard to adhere to when all you have to do is open the Off Topic forum to get smacked in the face with a list of topics intended to inflame. I don't have to read it... it's just too in my face.
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:28 pm
by Pia
Stay Margo - stay..................please
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:36 pm
by Wakey
Anthony, don't delete her account!
This is like being in a street gang, you can't quit!!
Seriously, delete this post and just go with it.
Bye - O ! Noooo
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:38 pm
by sandollar
We all really care about you and everything that you contribute to this board. You certainly "shine" and always go the extra mile for each of us. Sincerely hope you will take a breather and then reconsider coming back. Completely agree with the above posters. A sad Monday. . . .
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:46 pm
by jayseadee
oh crap!
Sorry to see you go CG, this is a better place with you around.
I used to frequent a very busy Bermuda forum. Tons of daily posts, they had coozies, t-shirts, buttons, secret passwords and gatherings. Then the in-fighting started and now there's barely 1 post a week.
I hope VIOL isn't going away the same way.
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:50 pm
by bevm
Maybe we've all lost sight of what the VIOL is meant to be..It's not a place for political statements (there are other forums for those). It's a place for information and sharing memories of the place in the world that we love most.. We want outsiders to come to the forum and feel unafraid to ask questions about the V.I. That's the reason the forum was established in the first place..not for our own agendas or vendettas. Let's get back to what this is suppose to be for. Sharing information. Leave your personality quirks at the dock (Cruz Bay) and have fun...COME ON FOLKS! We're adults here...Let's not forget that, please....
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:55 pm
by StJohnRuth
Please think about this for 24 hours.
- Ruth
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:56 pm
by Wakey
jayseadee wrote:
I hope VIOL isn't going away the same way.
I guess some lessons need to be learned, the hard way.

Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:56 pm
by JT
bevm wrote: Leave your personality quirks at the dock (Cruz Bay) and have fun...COME ON FOLKS! We're adults here...Let's not forget that, please....
Bev, just don't check your quirks at the dock. It just wouldn't seem right.
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:56 pm
by benchill
I don't read the Off Topic forum. I stay right here where people talk about St. John and their travels. If I were to leave this forum, I would not hear about everyone's trips and kewl things that are happening. Nothing could be said on the Off Topic that could rob me of this simple pleasure. As stated before, do not hand over the power to control your emotions to someone else. Stay and have some fun with us.
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:58 pm
by bevm
JT I'm holdin' firmly to my quirks. Since my boobs started sagging it's all I have left!!

Margo, don't give in to those that would like you to do just what you're threatening to do. Stay and make them miserable!!!

Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 7:59 pm
by pjayer
My advise, for what it's worth, is to take a break for awhile if you feel you need to. Give it some time, then make a decision. I would really hate for you and all your posts to disappear forever. Just my .02 as a friend to a friend.