Thanks for the quick and insightful comments and suggestions. Keep them coming if there are more...and to Beesmom, a wonderful piece of advice...as the planner I get the final vote AND the first choice of bedroom. I'll post back when the decision is made and dates are selected.

We are group of four couples who will all be celebrating our 30th anniversary in 2013. I have visited St. John once (a short day trip on a cruise) and was smitten with the island. I have been successful in convincing all that St. John is the place to celebrate next year. The problem? Too many choice...