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16 Days to Coral Bay: Planning

Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 7:20 am
by Xislandgirl
16 days until Coral Bay

Planning to have no plan.

Easier said than done. There are on island friends I only get to see once a year, travel friends that are on island at the same time, beaches and restaurants I must visit, music I want to hear, boat trips to take, etc.
How do you plan a trip with no plans? The answer from someone that is a planner for living? You don’t.
You make plans and hope that you will make them but set a realistic expectation that you may not make all of it happen.

The best part of the planning process is this time. The few weeks leading up to the trip where you check the forum and the Spicecam a dozen or more times a day. One of my favorite parts of this time is the Making of the Lists. It is a process that I have perfected. Mind you, these lists are made and promptly ignored. There are speadsheets on different computers, notes on the iphone that are never looked at, and chicken scratch on the back of a receipt when the thought of something I MUST have on vacation came to me as I was driving, or doing dishes, or getting my hair done.
The lists serve as a way for me to think I am in control of my vacation. I will be prepared for whatever comes my way; be it swarms of mosquitos, a sudden downpour, or the need for an extra watch battery.

On Day 1 to Coral Bay, I will not have a list because I will not have any idea where any of my lists are. I will throw stuff in a bag and hope for the best and I will not have an extra watch battery…as if I would need it?

Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 9:02 am
by michigan girls
I am heavy into the list making right now! Of course I am meticulously placing the notes into my laptop bag so I can find them on the last day.

Not that I suspect I will need them, I'm just a compulsive list maker and I must admit I enjoy them.

I am struggling not to make too many plans, and I don't have any friends (yet) on the island. I can only imagine what I would be like in your shoes. How exciting for you though!

Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 7:56 pm
by Lindy
Oh XIslandgirl we need to meet! Rachel tells me that you are in the Granby area and I am in New Hartford! I am ALWAYS looking for someone as crazy about STJ as I am for "girl's" trips since Hubby isn't quite as enamored. You sound like someone who could be my STJ buddy!!! I have one friend who is as crazy as myself so we'd had a threesome at minimum!!!!

Lindy

Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 8:54 pm
by Xislandgirl
Lindy! When I get back let's meet for a drink!!!! We are so close!

Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2012 2:27 pm
by nuendelcapecod
I loved this post! I am a listmaker and a crosser-offer but this year I had to spend a week just before we left for SJ with my family due to a medical issue. Threw me off kilter. So I still don't know, after returning, what I did with the soap dish, q-tips and a few little tiny odds and ends but you know? They sell those things there!

Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2012 7:21 pm
by ColumbiaSCTraveler
I am a list maker, too!!! I like taking down a list of "new things to do / see / eat" if one day we're somehow stumped for something to do / see / eat...which isn't often, but I still like having 234908 options!

Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 5:43 am
by Boston Mike
1.) Meet Boston Mike & Nicolle with arrival drinks at dock on 04/27.

There your list D

Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:53 am
by Xislandgirl
Boston Mike wrote:1.) Meet Boston Mike & Nicolle with arrival drinks at dock on 04/27.

There your list D
It is on the list!

Posted: Wed Apr 11, 2012 6:52 pm
by Boston Mike
Xislandgirl wrote:
Boston Mike wrote:1.) Meet Boston Mike & Nicolle with arrival drinks at dock on 04/27.

There your list D
It is on the list!
We so owe you! Can't wait to see ya both. :D