USVI-On-Line

If you like sake (if not, sorry), this is where we go. It is a Japanese, but not sushi, restaurant/sake bar.
Sakagura: http://www.sakagura.com/index.php

Their sake menu is extensive and they serve dishes (tapas-style) that go well with sake. Although the portions are very small, the food is generally very good – some are simple, some are more creative. Can't talk about their desserts since we've never tried. There might be hits-and-misses on the menu, perhaps depending on your palate. It is rather a sip-and-nibble kind of place. I get pleasantly full after sharing several dishes but my husband usually doesn't. It's pretty well hidden, located in a basement of some office building near Grand Central. I should add that it

I agree with martini girl and Becco's. If you know your wines, you can get some great buys...all are at one set price. They buy lots out. Price fix meal is a great buy - all you can eat pasta ( 3 choices)

two boots my vote
http://www.twoboots.com/

To add to Becco's appeal, they offer a great wine list of $25 bottles...we sampled quite a few when we were there and it didn't break the bank. My husband ordered the shrimp appetizer special. He thought he'd get maybe 5 or 6 shrimp, but when the plate arrived, it was a full dozen, for around $12 I think. He loved it. Really a great place to try.

Thanks for all the ideas! I have some research to do. Becco sounds especially interesting.

I know about chowhound, I have posted over there for years, but I am being lazy and don't feel like reading the whole huge Manhattan board. I knew my forum friends would have some tasty suggestions.

For a fun, informal spot, try Mario Batali and Joe Bastianich's "Otto".
http://www.ottopizzeria.com/

If you do Becco's, make reservations & ask for a table in the back room * a new add on a few years ago...had the best pumpkin ravioli there as one of the all you can eat pastas...never would have tried that Hubby thinks there Osso bucco (sp??) is the best!